On Friendship: A Review of The Boys in the Back Row

When 12-year-old Matt Park decides to play drums rather than piccolo in his school’s marching band, he gets to sit in the back row of the music room next to Eric Costa, his best friend since fourth grade. It also means Matt has to sit next to bullies Kenny and Sean and listen to their sexist, racist, and homophobic comments against Asian Americans like him and everyone else who isn’t just like them. In this situation, a best friend also means protection, but that’s going to end soon because Eric’s family is moving across the country at the end of the school year. When Matt and Eric find out their favorite comic book creator will be at a con at the same time and place as their out-of-town spring band competition, the two hatch a plan to sneak out for one last hurrah.

Sean finds out their plans. He reveals his own interest in going to the comics convention and wheedles and threatens his way into their group. Seeing Sean’s troubled home life, Matt and Eric must decide whether his overtures are for real and if they want someone else in the middle of their friendship. And Sean isn’t the only one. Hector, Matt and Eric’s roommate at the band competition has also reached out and becomes the first classmate besides Eric to visit Matt at home and meet his cool parents.

Mike Jung’s latest middle grade novel explores friendships between boys and what makes a good friend. Matt and Eric model healthy friendships. Even though they don’t always agree, they share interests, respect each other as equals, and always have each other’s backs. Together they face the dilemmas that Sean presents: Can a bully reform? Does his family situation redeem him? Are Sean and Kenny hiding a secret behind their homophobia? And larger questions: As parents play a smaller role (or sometimes a negative role), how can boys steer each other in the direction of becoming decent men? Through its engaging, fast-paced storyline, The Boys in the Back Row explores themes that kids will ponder and discuss long after the final page. In this way, the novel is a perfect complement to Torrey Maldonado’s Tight, another thoughtful novel about middle school boys’ friendships but with a different dynamic.

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